Well here it is for the world to know…. Because many people sent me messages showing me what John has been writing on fb about me , I guess I need to clarify somethings. Yes it’s true that John and my cousin Marie Hooper sexually screwed around. This has not been a secret at all. Yes it’s true that I have tried very hard to forgive him. I do believe that she is sorry and young and stupid and made a horrible mistake. As for John in his mid-40s, with a family, no. I have NOT TAKEN MY CHILDREN AWAY FROM JOHN. My kids are old enuf to know that John was “kissing on” our cousin. As to keep it clean enough. Of course things have been rough since John and Marie did this to us. I maybe a very strong woman but I certainly can be broken. Yes I kicked him out 2 weeks ago and he moved back to Illinois. Yes he gave me his password to his fb so that I could see how he has asked other women out on dates and made several perverted comments to them, as to make me jealous. No I am not jealous, but only even more sickened than before. I have never asked ANYONE to pick sides. And everyone knows that. My kids asked me today why I was crying. I don’t lie to my kids. I told them that John doesn’t care about anyone but himself and that he asked 2 other woman out on dates already. My oldest daughter is VERY upset. When John emailed her, she replied back that she no longer wants to talk to him. And my youngest daughter could careless. He has put my kids and me through the ringer this past 7 yrs. So I’m asking all of you to not allow him to keep hurting us by believing things that are not true about us. He will continue to lie. I have finally accepted it. John is a chameleon and can and will blend. No one knows this better than me. I dont need the “i told u so’s,” as i already know i should not have given him another chance after he stoled all that money 4 yrs ago. So there you have it everyone. That’s my dirty laundry, all aired out on fb. How sad that I feel I have to go this far because he keeps portraying me as the bad guy so wicked heartless. I am far from what he pretends that I am. I’m sure most of you know this.